Yippee!! Here I am blogging in real life, rather than just imagining a time when I'll have time to blog! Rachel and Miss O are shopping and Master R and I have postponed our visit to the allotment on account on the rain. Checks weather through window. Ah. The rain has stopped. I don't care! I'm here, and I'm going to carry on. We can plant garlic and shallots this afternoon!
Because what I REALLY want to record today, is our first month of Our Wild Year. This was an idea that slowly developed in my mind as I read 'How to Raise a Wild Child', by the inspirational, optimistic Professor Scott D Sampson. That book and the ideas within it resonate a lot with me and how Rach and I try to raise our children. To be wild. To appreciate and value to beautiful, exquisite and incredible world around them. To enjoy spending time in it and to want to protect it. So we came up with this plan:
And we came up with these themes. Big Ideas to inspire the activities and invitations to play that I set up now and then at home. A concept to ruminate on while playing outside or inside, working at the allotment, wandering (who am I kidding? RUSHING) to school. They're flexible. Already I've changed February's theme to Space, because Master R's class at school have been talking about Space a lot so it makes sense to think about that at home. We can do Hidden Worlds another time. But we thought about when in the year it would make sense to focus on particular things. We considered the weather, what we'd be doing at the allotment, what would fit in with what would be going on anyway.
Our first activity was a polar themed tuff tray. Easy enough to set up the night before. I'd seen the turn-a-paper-plate-into-an-igloo hack on Pinterest at some point and happily I have lots of blue hand towels from when our downstairs toilet was yellow and blue. Rummaged through the small world box (and the duplo one, actually) of the playroom to find watery and cold critters and popped some takeaway tubs under the towels as landscaping. Easy peasy.
Happy little penguin in an igloo.
Master R and Miss O were enthusiastic about adding water and ice the next day, and investigated in that natural, curious way children do. I tried to probe into their thinking a little by asking some open questions and encouraging them to make observations.
Mostly, they enjoyed the small world imaginary play. Animals chased and ate each other. Creatures attempted to float on the ice cubes (too small, they inevitably tipped off). Lots of adventures and chattering.
I recorded their talking and activities as soon after was I could, before I forgot all they did and said:
Master R talked lots about his thoughts and wonders:
"Is a shark stronger than a stingray?"
"I think grass went in the sea and changed into seaweed."
"The ice is cracking because the water is making it warm!"
"The stingray wants to float on the ice."
"The water is cold now! The ice made it cold."
"I think the ice out of the water will stay frozen."
Miss O mostly made the animals talk, which was adorable. She also:
- Built a duplo tower for the polar bear.
- Enjoyed making the animals chat to her and each other.
- Ripped up the paper plate igloo and put it in the water.
- Licked the ice... a lot!
Keen to make links between water and nature and do delve a little into why water is so essential, I thought we should make a bird bath. I found instructions to make a simple birdbath in our RSPB book and collected some inspiring items. Mostly, laying stuff out like this in the evening ensures I remember to do the activity the next day!
The construction took literally five minutes. I found a big flower pot and a tray. Master R and Miss O each chose a large pebble from the dry riverbed. I let them pour the water in. Job done. We even got to school on time... then discovered it was Team Tuesday and Master R was not wearing the welly boots which are required. Sigh. You can't win them all!
The bird bath, actually, and dumping those bird related items on the window sill has led to a huge upsurge in bird watching in our household. I've always been interested in the birds and pointed them out to the children from when they were teeny tiny. But they've become more curious about them since building that little bath (which, to date, I've only seen one robin land on momentarily). Just doing a five minute activity and leaving bird watching equipment in a convenient location has inspired them quite a bit, so I'm really pleased.
Lazy Sunday morning bird watching, one in pyjamas, one already dressed (she dresses like it's August every day. She's forever saying "I am not told, Mummy!"). Note my new adorable caravan teapot on the window sill. A teapot is a key part of my weekend mornings now.
Having seen that were were a-bird-watching, a friend got Master R this lovely bird book for his birthday. Much easier and more fun to identify birds from this than the adult RSPB book which has hundreds of species.
Miss O loves using the binoculars. She usually uses them the wrong way round. We've had them ages and I can't even remember where they came from. They used to be in the dressing up box, but have recently moved (we had to have the post-Christmas and birthday Sort Of The Playroom) to the nature activities box. A box filled with magnifying glasses, those little pots with magnifying lids, a microscope (another excellent birthday present) and some entirely random things that also needed a place to live. The playroom is categorised... to a point!
Love her serious expression as she flicks through the grown up RSPB book.
A bit late on, I realised that I could have themed books in the book bag we keep in the lounge. I think it occurred to me while I was having a marvellously satisfying re-sort of the bookshelves in their bedroom. I took ALL the books off, organised them by shape and size and replaced them on the shelves. Man, it felt good! Then I pulled out all the books related to water, sea, water animals... quite a few, as it turned out! The children enjoyed having some different books downstairs (we do change the book bag books round fairly regularly), although I don't think they noticed there was a theme until Rachel pointed it out!
Another lazy weekend day, I set up this quickly. I'd shoved the ice cube tray in the freezer earlier in the month, with some coloured ice cubes, some glittery ice cubes and some oat milk ice cubes. We had a quiet morning in, and I thought it'd be a good opportunity for some sensory play.
Wonderfully weird ice cubes:
They were keen to get started! The first thing we did was feel the water with our hands... one dish was hot water, one was cold. I thought that could extend their thinking about melting.
Lots of fine motor skills picking up the ice to put it in the trays.
Master R:
"The ice will make the water cold."
"Oh! The water is turning blue! I want it MORE blue. I'm going to put another blue ice cube in."
"I think the glitter will sink."
"I've caught it [the ice]! Look how small it is!"
"I'm going to catch that piece of glitter... I've got it!!"
Miss O:
"It's cold! My hand is fweezing!"
"I want to pick up the ice. I tan't do it. Help me Mummy."
"My hand is blue! I will wipe it on my t-shirt."
"Look! I have blue water!"
I challenged Master R to guess what was in the yellow coloured ice cubes, which were giving off tiny flakes as they melted. He guessed paint, apple juice, orange juice, all kinds of things! Even when we described it as stuff in the fridge that we eat on cereal, he was baffled for a while. He did eventually work out it was oat milk. Tee hee.
It was a fun half hour or so. They lifted, scooped, poured, sieved and stirred. They noticed how cold the hot water became as the ice cubes melted. We were amazed by how blue the water went and how much faster the ice melted in the hot water. And most importantly, they had fun.
On the same day, it was rather snowy outside, so Master R donned his snowsuit to go out and explore. The bird bath was full of ice and slush.
Keen to play in the snow, Master R requested the digger, dump truck and some small cars to "rescue". He painstakingly collected snow (well, cold slush) to bury the little car, so he could then dig it out again. This is why I chose January to be the month about water. I hoped there would be natural opportunities to play with solid water.
The next day we fulfilled another idea on my brainstorm, when we popped to the allotment after school for snacks (obviously), digging in the mud (mandatory) and a bit of pond dipping. We learnt that we have leeches in the little trug-pond this year, which we definitely didn't have last year. We found out that leeches are really easy to catch in a tub, but exceedingly difficult to release, because they just attach themselves to the bottom or sides and cling on as the water pours out. Eventually I worked out that swishing the water round in a swift circular motion made them let go so I could sluice them out. That evening, Master R described really clearly to Mummy Rachel how we'd caught and released the little suckers.
Soon our bird-watching skills and enthusiasm were put to the test, as we took part in the Big Garden Birdwatch. I was pleased that both chiddlers were keen to help, Master R definitely more so. Miss O mostly just ran round being a pirate... with a finger puppet bird on her hook. But Master R and I set outselves up on the blanket box, with out recording sheet, bird book, binoculars, camera (and, if you look carefully, a red jersey top I'd sewn the day before and needed to unpick a line of top-stitching that hadn't worked out).
Master R requested that we read "that story about the birds building the nest"... a story about crossbills in the RSPB Wild Times magazine they get a few times a year.
We had a little finger puppet birds which we'd made from our RSPB magazine during the month. It really had turned into a month of learning about birds!
We spotted a wood pigeon, a pair of blackbirds, three starlings and a dunnock. Sadly, our garden pair of robins and family of blue tits didn't show up. And no gulls or jackdaws were tempted down by the bread I'd thrown out for them. The birds clearly know about Birdwatch, don't you think?
But the fact that not all that many birds showed up didn't spoil the experience. We had fun watching for them and chatting. Master R loved filling out the answers to the quiz about the crossbills story. He managed to sound out pine cone tree (pin con tree) and winter (wintu) and various other challenging words.
I had pootled round Pinterest (as you do) looking for ideas to add to my brainstorm earlier on in the month and I was keen to try this experiment using ice blocks and coloured salt. When Hello Fresh delivered us a box (accidentally, because we forgot to cancel it!!) with huge ice blocks to keep the meat cool, it was the perfect opportunity.
Coloured salt, as it turns out, is absurdly easy to make. You just stir some poster paint into some salt and leave it to dry overnight. So quick and simple! Master R spotted the pots of sand after school one day, so we did it there and then at the kitchen table. Pour on some salt and watch to see what happens.
A first, not much. But then, after we'd wandered off to play for half an hour, then returned, we could see it was starting to bore holes through the ice. The ice was pox-marked and bumpy to touch where the salt was lying on it.
And later still, at dinner time, it was hollowed out! Little spots of the coloured salt were burrowing their way through the huge frozen blocks. This would be a great experiment to do again when they're older and get the science behind it. I wish I'd known about it when I was a teacher.
I was fascinated by the side view of Miss O's block of ice. See how far through the ice the salt has travelled?
The last activity was spontaneous, relates more to light and dark than water and was unplanned. Rachel had picked up some glow sticks from a conference and I decided to take them up to bathtime that night for a glow in the dark bath experience. I also took my camera, so I could play around with my manual settings to try to take photos in really dim light that were in focus.
I've been reading up on birth photography, because I'm debating whether to apply to do a midwifery course as soon as Miss O starts school, or to give it a few years, so I can really enjoy their childhood before I'm committed to three years of really time-consuming work and study. In the latter option, I'd want to be doing SOMETHING with my extra time, alongside sling librarying. Maybe birth photography? The huge challenge of birth photography is the fact that many births take place in very dimly lit surroundings, because that's how most women birth well. So I was testing the limits of my little camera. I ended up with a LOT of blue glowing blurs... and a few gems! I'm well aware that if I decide to pursue birth photography I will need a truly AWESOME camera on which the ISO goes to 9,000 instead of 3,600, but I was impressed that by tweaking the aperture, I could get much better photos than I thought I would!
Anyway, they enjoyed making the bathwater and themselves glow and we were pleasantly surprised that the sticks were still glowing the next morning... and the following evening!!
So... January. The month of water. I've enjoyed having a focus. It has meant that I've found ideas on Pinterest I'd never have found or considered before. I'm surprised by how the five minute activity of creating a bird bath took us on a diversion into a month of bird watching, but I'm pleased by that. It fitted in nicely with the fact that it was the Big Garden Birdwatch and it's begun to get the children seeing animals as other living creatures with needs, personalities and desires just like them! That's something I'd like to build on this year. I'm starting to think that a theme per month is a bit swift, to be honest. There were more water activities I wanted to do, but ran out of time for. Perhaps 2-3 month themes would have been wiser. I'll see how we get on with our month of SPACE in February, and perhaps amend our plan for the year.